consent is a hell of a thing aint it
You like [pəˈteɪtoʊ] and I like [pəˈtɑtoʊ]
You like [təˈmeɪtoʊ] and I like [təˈmɑtoʊ]
However, as a descriptivist, I respect linguistic diversity
And do not think that differences in pronunciation should be a reason for us to call the whole thing off.